Buy the GPs a couple of gun safes.
Great FReeper comment, posting without reading that they already bought the GP a gun safe. 😁
Buy a couple of surplus cages from the INS/Border Patrol and keep the kids in them. Problem solved!
They did
The gp’s understand guns in safes are worthless when you need them right away
The paranoid mother did and they refuse to use it.
They did that, and the GP refused to use it.
HELL, NO.
PAY for a separate babysitter....Don’t expect free family babysitting to include YOUR standards for in home personal safety.
Those parents raised a MAN YOU married—so there must have been something they did right.
Quit being such a cheapskate & spend other quality time with In-Laws & kids at dinner or movies, etc.
It is NOT her right to dictate how they handle their own personal safety in their own property—not ever...