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Ugly Social Media Comments Hurt Our Christian Witness And Our Country
The Federalist ^ | September 24, 2020 | Laura Henby Hudgens

Posted on 09/24/2020 7:15:23 AM PDT by Kaslin

Following Jesus means remembering Christ’s command to forgive and to pray for our enemies. It means letting go of malice and bitterness, even under fire.


Even though I know better, I recently left a comment on the Facebook post for a Federalist article I saw lamenting mask mandates. I didn’t rant or get on a soapbox. All I did was express my belief that wearing masks protects others and wrote a couple of sentences pointing out the need to look out for our most vulnerable citizens.

Since The Federalist is a conservative publication and I tend to lean to the middle of the political compass, I didn’t expect my words to be agreed with, let alone cheered. Yet I also didn’t expect to be the object of vitriolic rage for my opinion.

The worst comment came from a woman who said, among other things, that I have no respect for our fallen soldiers or the rights they died to protect. She called me “ignorant,” an “utter fool,” an “assimilated Borg government drone,” and “beneath contempt” — because I favor mask mandates.

I deleted my comment, not because I don’t stand by it, but because the responses were so extreme, so over-the-top, that I felt weird and embarrassed to be associated with the conversation. I wanted to tell this woman that I’ve written a couple of articles for The Federalist in the past and that we might share similar opinions on other issues. I guess we’ll never know.

Of course, conservatives don’t have a monopoly on this type of fury. Early in the pandemic when The Washington Post reported 1 in 8 Trump voters live in counties without an Intensive Care Unit, nearly all the comments on Facebook and on the Post’s website were gleeful. Some spoke of natural selection. Others cited karma. Commenters joked about sending “thoughts and prayers” and about how “those people” don’t believe in science anyway.

Indeed, amidst a pandemic and with sometimes inadequate health care, people who live in poor, rural counties were mocked for their weight, their religion, their education. They were told they were getting what they deserve. The lack of compassion was astounding.

Sadly, the preceding examples are just a sampling of the daily deluge of hate and anger routinely spewed across the internet. They aren’t comprehensive, but they showcase our eagerness to put people into boxes based on who they vote for, where they live, what causes they support, or what opinions they hold on any given topic.

Once we’ve compartmentalized others, we no longer see them as people, loved into existence by God. We stop viewing them as people with an inherent dignity that marks them as humans deserving of kindness and respect. Instead, we see them as the enemy. We insult them personally. We call them names. We dismiss them as stupid, evil, or “beneath contempt.”

We don’t just disagree, we hate. Yet those we hate, however, no matter who they are voting for or what positions they hold are sons and daughters of God.

I once heard a priest explain it this way: We are, at our core, beloved children of God. Our actions don’t change that. If I lie, for example, I am not, at my core, a liar. I am a child of God who lies. The same is true for politics and policies.

It is not who we vote for or even what opinions we hold that define us because, more than anything else, each of us is a beloved child of God. It’s true for me, and it is true for the lady in the comments section who hates me.

To be clear, this priest wasn’t trying to minimize sin. If anything, he was trying to emphasize the seriousness of it. After all, while it may be part of our fallen nature, sin goes against our original design.

This is true of all sin, but perhaps it is particularly true of a lack of charity or sins of meanness and snark, of name-calling and mocking. When we do these things, we don’t only deny our own nature as children of God but that of the people we mock and insult — whether a stranger with the “wrong” opinion or a politician running for office.

Of course, mudslinging is nothing new. Our country has a long history of ugly and contentious politics. Yet, in today’s political climate this has reached a fever pitch. Sadly, many of our brothers and sisters in Christ are often contribute to the growing acrimony. Acrid, personal cheap shots and insults not only weaken our witness as Christians — they weaken our democracy.

Right now, we are a polarized nation. Meaningful discussion and intelligent debate have all but been lost to us. Instead, we call people names and mock their beliefs in an attempt to score points for “our side.” We rage into cyberspace, hoping to collect “likes” from those who think like us or to insult those who don’t. We don’t really seek to change hearts and minds — we just try to wound them. Meanwhile, the divide between left and right just grows ever wider.

But what if Americans, Christians in particular, stopped all of this? What if we shared our personal beliefs and political positions respectfully, without smugness or condescension? What if we listened to others, even those with whom we vehemently disagree, and tried to understand something of where they are coming from?

What if we realize that people who support the other candidate or hold a different opinion might still be good and decent people? What if we treated every other person, on the internet or in person, as a child of God?

Being a Christian doesn’t mean tolerating ideas and policies that are morally problematic, nor does it mean we have to necessarily like people we find disagreeable. Yet being a follower of Jesus means remembering Christ’s command to forgive and to pray for our enemies.

Above all, it means praying that we can be granted the strength to let go of malice and bitterness, even in the face of opposition and insults. If we did that, we still might not change people’s opinions or win them over to “our side.” But we would be showing them the love of Christ, and that might just help Him win them to His.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: comments; onlinecomments; political; politicaldebates; politicaldivision; socialmedia; socialmediamobs

1 posted on 09/24/2020 7:15:23 AM PDT by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin

This is a Bush Republican mindset. The left only understands smashmouth brute force. Being nice plays into their hands.


2 posted on 09/24/2020 7:16:46 AM PDT by dirtboy
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To: dirtboy

Truth. And while most of us are conservative, not all of us are Christian.

Keep in mind, Nasty Pelosi is technically a practicing Catholic.


3 posted on 09/24/2020 7:18:53 AM PDT by Dead Corpse (A Psalm in napalm...)
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To: Kaslin
Following Jesus means remembering Christ’s command to forgive and to pray for our enemies. It means letting go of malice and bitterness, even under fire.

I'm sorry but it doesn't mean rolling over and letting your nation, community or family be destroyed. Being a Christian is not synonymous with being a doormat or coward.

4 posted on 09/24/2020 7:31:08 AM PDT by Altura Ct.
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To: Kaslin

“What if we realize that people who support the other candidate or hold a different opinion might still be good and decent people? What if we treated every other person, on the internet or in person, as a child of God?”

At one time this was true but today’s situation is different. We have the forces of good vs the forces of evil. One has to make a stand. This article for the most part is spewing the SJW bilge water heresy that has been infiltrating the Church for awhile. Today you can see this much more clearly and it must be called out by the faithful.


5 posted on 09/24/2020 7:35:44 AM PDT by DarthVader (Not by speeches & majority decisions will the great issues of the day be decided but by Blood & Iron)
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To: Kaslin

Did the author forget how Jesus spoke to the Pharisees and scribes? To their faces, Jesus called them ‘fools, hypocrites, serpents, a generation of vipers, and whited sepulchres full of dead men’s bones and uncleanness’.

In truth, I don’t think Christians should do any less when confronting evil.

Peach


6 posted on 09/24/2020 7:59:01 AM PDT by CarolinaPeach
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To: CarolinaPeach

word


7 posted on 09/24/2020 8:20:12 AM PDT by dirtboy
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To: dirtboy

yep, 100%


8 posted on 09/24/2020 8:36:03 AM PDT by Manuel OKelley
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To: Kaslin
Since The Federalist is a conservative publication and I tend to lean to the middle of the political compass, I didn’t expect my words to be agreed with, let alone cheered. Yet I also didn’t expect to be the object of vitriolic rage for my opinion.

Like the British who did not understand the battlefield in Colonial America, and formed perfect lines as they readied their muskets -- and lost -- this person plays by the same rules -- and will lose. I say this as a life-long Evangelical Christian who knows his Scriptures.

When she admits this: "I tend to lean to the middle of the political compass..." wanna bet she was (and likely still is) a closet Never-Trumper, and that whatever do-gooder message she thinks she has a place to make simply gets lost in her self-righteosness?

FReegards!

1st-Annual-Freeper-Convention-1million-vet-march

9 posted on 09/24/2020 8:41:14 AM PDT by Agamemnon (Darwinism is the glue that holds liberalism together)
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To: dirtboy

Jesus, our teacher talked tough, used whips to stop bad actors, said something about being gentle as doves ( they are not, they’re ornery) taking a sword with, and called people names. Hmmmm.


10 posted on 09/24/2020 9:01:15 AM PDT by amihow
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To: Kaslin

I like the notion of the title. But the article is too-oo-oo lo-o-ong.


11 posted on 09/24/2020 9:12:18 AM PDT by Honest Nigerian
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To: Kaslin

Yeah, just stand there while they rape your children and disembowel your parents.. Just forgive them.

So much for the Masada approach. The Barbarians are in the gates, Ma’am. They control the gates, dummy.


12 posted on 09/24/2020 10:35:46 AM PDT by NormsRevenge (Semper Fi - Monthly Donors Rock!!!)
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To: Agamemnon

“..Like the British who did not understand the battlefield in Colonial America, and formed perfect lines as they readied their muskets — and lost...” [Agamemnon, post 9]

An inaccurate summary of what happened during the American War of Independence.

The British Army of the time was the second-best-trained among the European powers. And - thanks to British acquisition of its colonial empire - it was the most experienced armed force on the planet, especially in non-European tactics on distant foreign battlefields. And in supply/sustainment of forces over great distances. Communications between senior British commanders indicates they were fully aware of conditions in the North American colonies, and how to contend with them.

What the British lacked was any respect for Americans as subjects or combatants, dismissing their fighting spirit, their unity, out of hand.

George Washington himself was all too aware of shortcomings of his troops: he admitted he lacked confidence in militia, riflemen, and frontiersmen. What he really wanted was “an army that would look the enemy in the face.”

That sort of steadiness was obtained through training and drill - which were in time supplied by Friedrich Wilhelm Ludolf Gerhard Augustin Freiherr von Steuben, who had been a captain in the Prussian army. He trained cadres in the Continental Army in early 1778.

The training and drill were spread throughout the regiments. British officers soon noticed the difference: their communiques remarked on the newly discovered tenacity of Continental Army formations, who withstood cavalry charges, artillery barrages, and bayonet attacks better than before.

But that’s not the whole story.

Strategically, the fledgling United States did not win the American War of Independence; it did not lose. The Americans avoided catastrophic defeat until US diplomats convinced the French to enter the conflict; Spain and then Holland joined the cause somewhat later. Facing a worldwide war against other European powers, the British cut their losses and concluded a treaty recognizing independence of the USA.


13 posted on 09/24/2020 12:51:33 PM PDT by schurmann
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To: Kaslin

Let’s see... Jesus called people: blind guides, fools, serpents, vipers, And that’s just Matthew 23, Paul called someone “child of the devil”.


14 posted on 09/24/2020 2:34:59 PM PDT by The Truth Will Make You Free
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To: Kaslin

Too many of my Christian friends, including pastors, hate Trump with the fire that can only come from Hell. If you hate the leader that God selected, whether it be Clinton, Bush, Obama or Trump, you are sinning against God’s chosen leader.


15 posted on 09/24/2020 2:39:17 PM PDT by AppyPappy (How many fingers am I holding up, Winston?)
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To: schurmann
An inaccurate summary of what happened during the American War of Independence... blah, blah, blah ...What the British lacked was any respect for Americans as subjects or combatants, dismissing their fighting spirit, their unity, out of hand... blah, blah, blah....

And as I said: "Like the British who did not understand the battlefield in Colonial America, and formed perfect lines as they readied their muskets -- and lost."

FReegards!

1st-Annual-Freeper-Convention-1million-vet-march

16 posted on 09/24/2020 5:31:36 PM PDT by Agamemnon (Darwinism is the glue that holds liberalism together)
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