Sometimes you raise a kid PERFECTLY the right ways and he turns out 99% screwed up. Don’t always judge the parent. Free will was designed into the nut. Ask me how I know.
Contrary to modern thinking, I think free will is not at all what women like. It is why families always sweat balls when they get a daughter , worried about how to marry her. It is less about how she turns out but who she turns out with.
The city is absolutely toxic in terms of guessing what will that be