The U.S Congress long ago voted to equally honor memorials and veterans of BOTH @armies.
What’s so hard to understand?
You honor men who waged armed rebellion against their country. By the definition of treason in the Constitution they committed treason, and the generosity of the post-rebellion president doesn't change that. If you want to honor them then I'm fine with that. If Southern states want to honor them then I'm fine with that. and if the federal government chooses not to honor them anymore then I'm fine with that as well. Why are you so upset about it?