Your story is very sad. That is child abuse. Teaching a child self loathing is a recipe for life long self abusive behaviors.
Parents who are getting on “this blame whitey bus” are looking for excitement, a sense of being special & important and are throwing their kids under the bus to get that feeling of being one of the “in” crowd.
Agree. Young children have enough trouble with their self image. This is an intelligent woman. Maybe she just wants to feel part of the acceptable crowd.
Some parents will sacrifice their own daughters and sons in the name of social justice.