There are plenty of positions in the military that women can do well, but infantry, artillery, etc. is not among them.
I have no issues with logistical support, medical support, etc, but the dirty and gritty parts need to be done by the meanest, nastiest, strongest, toughest, people we can find.
And apparently, those women in the positions where they can do well, you think we need to hide them from the men, because their very existence, you say, tempts men to rape and kill them.