This sounds like an argument that women should not be in the military because military men can’t control themselves and are expected to rape women. Which is offensive to the male soldiers that serve in our military.
Some can't. But that is not the primary reason why women shouldn't be in combat portions of the military. The primary reason why is because apart from rare exceptions, they simply cannot match the endurance and power of men.
There is a reason why there are women's sports and men's sports.