I’d would think in this day of age that would be common sense. But, under the idea that the white guy was saying it so many times had me super confused. (and yes I have a really bad ear but that’s wasn’t the problem. Confusion was. Can I blame the chemo card?).
SOrry, no ill will towards you. BUt like I described my personal experience, hearing black people say they’ve been targets of casual racist comments from whites their whole lives just doesn’t ring true to me. 60, 80, 100 years ago? OK, but since the 70’s? No way.