Yes, so sad.
Kobe chose poorly for him and his family
And his wife doesn’t want to accept that, “He chose.” While I recognize that a lot of people feel as she does, I don’t understand it. My family calls the Bryant situation “died of stupid,” and we take pride in taking responsibility.
I had a cousin - a civil engineer for the state of Missouri - who died in a lawn tractor accident about 20 years ago. My father wrote that he was honored to serve as a pallbearer and a participant in Masonic ... er ... recognition? ... for my cousin, but, “Tim died of stupid. He’d been on tractors his entire life. He knew better.”