Aren’t parents responsible for their little darlings until 21 years old? They should pay a price for failing to raise a decent kid.
PAte ve are not always responsible for the choices their children. make. DH and i raised 3 kids all the same way. We have a pastor, a doctor, and. heroin addict. It has taken me years to realize it’s not my fault that one went off the reservation and there is nothing I could do about it. Petty judgemental attitudes like yours no longer bother me - I have been through my own private hell and nothing ignorant people say can hurt worse than. going to bed every night wondering if this was the night you would be awakened by the police or the coroner. However I’m sure there are plenty of struggling parents out there that are still hurt even worse by your morally superior attitude. Congratulations