I went to college with a guy who reveled his gay lifestyle in an email to all students (back in the 1980’s)
I criticized him for doing that - NOT for being gay, just for using the school email system for promoting an agenda that had nothing to do with the school or the curriculum.
30 years later I went back to my school to get some additional credits- he was still working there, and STILL treated me like an asshole for my email.
Not the word I would use since poofters love assholes. < ^ . ^ >