in our society we glorify "letting it all hang out" and "if it feels good, do it"....
for many decades now, I'd say from the 60's, we've been told that nothing is wrong, that you can do whatever you want, that everything is alright because we're told "I'm okay, you're okay"...
The idea that choices and behavior have no moral dimension hasn’t worked out very well. But there I go being judgmental.