I am an anesthesiologist, am a critical care anesthesiologist, working in intensive care units. I truly wish you and your wife the best. Believe me I am angry, but in the immortal words of a hymn sung through Chritian churches:
I cannot be a prophet standing high on Zions wall,
I can be like faithful Arron, stretching out the prophets hand.
Right now I am treating people and taking care of a family — I am a single father with a child barred from attending her (Christian) high school. But I can speak the truth and hope some will listen
Blessings to you, and prayers for life and health. Perhaps we do have some commonality. Sorry for becoming emotional and passionate in speech — my Achilles heel no doubt,
Oops, I am wrong, you are an anesthesiologist. Anyway, I thought you were a gastroenterologist. But thank you for your insight in this thread.