It was a mental struggle for me too as a teenager. I had to fight to keep from getting an erection every time I saw/talked to a pretty girl.
The struggle was real folks but I suppose it “affirmed” my maleness.
... I had to fight to keep from getting an erection every time I saw/talked to a pretty girl.
And be sure they knew it, and used your “struggle” to their advantage. And the world keeps turning around. The little girls have been planning for this since age... 4, sometimes earlier. The boys have no idea what hit them.