My nephew in the Meramec, just west of St. Louis. Never found him. 5/31/2013
Oh, I am so sorry. Seems something like this, there is never any closure but you learn to go on one day at a time.
Sorry for your loss brother. May he R.I.P.
My 1st cousin in the Delaware, about 10 years ago now. They never found him either. My condolences.