“why feel like you have to say anything???”
You don’t!
But only a fool would counsel a employee of the opposite sex behind a closed door or without a witness. How’s that for a trusting work environment.
exactly. seems to me the guys getting into hot water put themselves there.
You would not tell a male co worker how nice his cologne smelled, would you? Just say Hi. No need to go into details on how she looks today.
She probably does not care what you think, unless she is dressing up for YOU.