“ Now how do I convince my wife of that? Basically this topic is off limits for us - she has some donut bumpers as work colleagues.”
Could be tough. Back in the ‘90s I lived in Midtown with my then wife. We had neighbors who were of that persuasion. They seemed nice enough. My then wife fancied herself open to “modern ways of thinking”. We once attended a party at their house. There were other straight couples there as well. By about 9:00, most of the straight couples had drifted away and the event took on a very different atmosphere. It soon was apparent, very apparent, that we were no longer welcome. I didn’t want to go in the first place and was glad we left when we did. She learned something that night. My feelings were merely reinforced.
Ewe ugly story. I remember a gay guy in college and he made it pretty clear how much sodomites hate christians.