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Obituary: Pro Life Down's Syndrome Mary Heithoff
Council Bluffs Daily Nonpareil ^

Posted on 01/19/2020 8:43:43 AM PST by Mean Daddy

Mary Patricia Heithoff peacefully passed from this life into the loving arms of God and her parents on January 17th, 2020.

She was born in Council Bluffs, on June 14th, 1958, to Robert and Donna Heithoff. She was diagnosed with Down syndrome, and at that time there were no pamphlets, no early intervention centers, no support groups, no anything to help her parents. In fact, doctors told them that she would be feeble-minded and helpless, she would not live more than eighteen years, and she would be a burden for them and their other children. The experts advised them to place her in an institution. They didn't do that. They believed there was value in every life. They brought her home to five siblings and raised her along with them and the two other children who were born subsequently.

Her family did not dwell on what Mary could not do. Instead, they taught her all they could and delighted in every milestone she achieved. What they didn't expect is what she would teach them and every person lucky enough to know her — how to live joyfully, how to laugh, how to love.

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What a beautifully written obituary from a family who valued life.
1 posted on 01/19/2020 8:43:43 AM PST by Mean Daddy
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To: Mean Daddy

Indeed so!


2 posted on 01/19/2020 8:52:49 AM PST by definitelynotaliberal (I believe it! He's alive! Sweet Jesus!)
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To: Mean Daddy

Down’s people are some of the most beautiful, loving, joyous, people on the planet.


3 posted on 01/19/2020 10:16:33 AM PST by LibertyWoman
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To: Mean Daddy

Down’s people are some of the most beautiful, loving, joyous, people on the planet.


4 posted on 01/19/2020 10:16:33 AM PST by LibertyWoman
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To: Mean Daddy
I worked in "front line" health care for 25 years. The hospital where I worked had an agreement with several nearby state hospitals to provide care for their residents and as a result we saw people with Downs Syndrome regularly.

I was always struck by how gentle and genial...sweet,I guess you could say...they were even when they were ill.But OTOH it was obvious that caring for such a person was a *huge* challenge.Those who do so well...be it family or a facility...have my utmost respect.

5 posted on 01/19/2020 11:04:02 AM PST by Gay State Conservative (The Rats Can't Get Over The Fact That They Lost A Rigged Election)
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To: LibertyWoman

Would love to see her smiling face beholding our dear savior and king Jesus Christ.


6 posted on 01/19/2020 11:35:17 AM PST by reviled downesdad (Some of the lost will never believe the Truth.)
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To: Mean Daddy

RIP.


7 posted on 01/19/2020 1:32:21 PM PST by fieldmarshaldj (Dear Mr. Kotter, #Epsteindidntkillhimself - Signed, Epstein's Mother)
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To: reviled downesdad

“Would love to see her smiling face beholding our dear savior and king Jesus Christ.”

Look up at the night sky, and you will see her smile shining brightly. And the Lord is happy to have her home.


8 posted on 01/19/2020 3:57:40 PM PST by ought-six (Multiculturalism is national suicide, and political correctness is the cyanide capsule.)
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To: reviled downesdad

We will. ;)


9 posted on 01/19/2020 6:03:19 PM PST by LibertyWoman
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