... Sexual Orientation, Normal and healthy or Deviant and Destructive?
Most of us are self destructive, only by the saving Grace of Christ can it be turned around. Sexual orientation is just one of a legion of ways toward destruction. Homosexual acts, along with Adultery, prevent one from entering into the Kingdom of God, which as you are aware, is a horrible price to pay. How many adulterers, as the Bible defines it, do you know, yet it is rarely decried on this site.
People who defend natural sex be cause it alone is aligned with God's Design and Natural Law (i.e. in contrast to contracepted sex), are still repudiated as some kind of weirdo at best, a sexual retrograde at worst.
As I look around and observe things, I notice that all-- 100% --- of LBGT straight "allies" are contraceptors, because what they all have in common is that they don't accept normal sex as a moral norm.