Building the best kids requires a parent who is actually there, instead of an endless stream of babysitters, nannies, daycare workers, teachers, coaches, etc.
It isn’t like there is any secret about it.
There are just people refusing to do what is needed because they value adult toys, prestige, and early retirement over their children.
In the end, they often wind up in some home and the children who barely know them never visit. They just supply them with nurses, and pastors, and pet therapy...
And the cat’s in the craddle...