My cousin who is a 30 year teacher, is faced with this right now. He is a Christian, and it goes against his beliefs. He is faced with immediate termination if he does not address this freak the way it wants. He is a wonderful teacher with a perfect teaching record, but just this one thing could end all that. In the meantime, he decided to address all students by their last names only to avoid any pronouns. Please keep him in your prayers. He is in the belly of the beast.
Please tell your cousin to absolutely never be alone with that student or even in a group smaller than 3-4. That student will create a scenario in which your cousin can be fired .