It is blunt.
SkyDancer posted what has happened in two relationships.
For the two men who she rejected she was a waste of relationship time.
Had she Ben clear up front they could have avoided being in a go_nowhere relationship.
As she obviously feels strong about her time, she ought to have been considerate about their time.
Not rude, not tasteless.
Perhaps a bit to honest for you or her.
Back in the late 80’s I had a girlfriend I was considering marrying. She was a sweet girl but didn’t eat meat and kept a messy apartment. I decided to move on. Just recently she told me she couldn’t have kids. 28 years of marriage and three kids later, I’m glad I made that choice.
Both rude and tasteless.
...and I forget, “presumptuous.”