I've thought about it plenty; in fact have done extensive graduate research on the devolution of sexual morality in the U.S. among many demographic subgroups (and both sexes) as a result of the so-called "sexual revolution" of the 60s and onward. You will not convince me by glibly slinging the "hate" word around like all the other leftists.
If you don't like the FR owner's stand on homosexuality and this being a nation under God as expressed on the home page of FR, why expect any sympathy for your defense of husbands on the down low, or any other form of self-indulgent betrayal of the family.
You cannot make actual moral equivalence with a shell game of "this looks like that." Whenever a leftie is losing an argument, it's just a matter of moments until the Hiltler comparisons. Spare us.