“He made some weird comment that she left home a little girl, and came home a woman.”
Ewwww. That passes “weird” by a mile. That’s just plain creepy.
It was perverse. To me it is evidence of a reprobate mind. Think of the people outside Lot’s house wanting to have carnal knowledge of the Angles. I do not any sane rational parent would make a comment like that concerning his daughter. That poor child.