There are Europeans who have talked about creating a "europeanized islam" which I suppose is theologically possible, in that Islam has no central authority, has no standard teaching authority, and already has many variations of practice and schools of thought. But as there is no bottom to the debate over what makes a "good" Muslim, except to attempt imitate life in 7th century Arabia, that schism will also automatically trigger violence.
The key is to get the kids to question the fundamental basis of Islam. On the internet they should see pop up ads questioning Mohammad and ridiculing his teachings. They want the modern world. Eventually enough of them will come around.