Chicks can shove it as far as I’m concerned, where I work. They should have told the feminists to SHOVE IT - they didn’t, now they pay.
My good female friends — including one of my ex-girlfriends (we broke up because she moved and neither of us does long distance relationships) — are all well aware of this mess and VERY protective of the men with whom they work. They want men to be comfortable around them, do not mind “guy talk,” etc. They are complete anti-feminists and in fact are angry with what the feminists have wrought. By the way, they are mostly very successful professionals.
So if you know someone well, it’s safe. But if you don’t know them well, it’s not safe.
That said, I have seen — and helped fight against — real sexual harassment. It does happen.
The solution: fake allegations of harassment need to be punished severely because they make real harassment harder to fight and wreck innocent men’s lives. Ditto fake allegations of rape because they make putting real rapists away (I personally think they should be shot) a lot harder and wreck innocent men’s lives.
Bingo!
This is my attitude when men have a valid complaint about women nowadays and some woman says to me “well, not all women are like that”.
Sorry, I don’t care. Men can’t change the situation, only other women can, so they need to step up and do it, not give some mealy mouthed excuses for why we shouldn’t respond rationally to the situation that feminists (and the majority of women’s acquiescence to them) have placed us in.