I was addressing millennials in general. Your analysis of millennial men in particular is on point. The problem is exacerbated because the institutions you mention have bought into the feminist lies (churches are especially guilty here and they mostly don’t realize it) and men don’t wish to participate. And why would they when those institutions subtly side against them every time.
I never understood that, particularly with the Catholic Church; it will always be headed by a man, and will always have solely male priests - because that is what Jesus set up 2,000 years ago. I understand wanted to include everyone, but that doesn’t override history/Scripture.
Never mind “wishing to participate”; men today are told that they have no voice in many of these institutions/matters - just that they should fund them (so they walk away).