If your kids are looking for "options," they should consider the option of taking their Confimation graces seriously, becoming more responsible members of the Church Militant, and fighting whether convenient or inconvenient, in season and out, for the Catholic Faith.
The present Pope and many of his higher-perch clerics are disgusting us by abandoning Catholicism. How can you fight that by...abandoning Catholicism??
Does leaving the Church present a good witness of unshakable courage and fidelity? Does YOUR leaving the Church make the Church a better place?
No fear.
No flight.
Stand and fight.
Our fidelity is to a person, Christ, not an organization, a church, no matter what it calls itself.