When I had command, I had the guts to call them as I saw them and stood by my decisions. I inspected, I monitored training, I submitted my Combat Readiness reports accurately and I didn't lose anyone.
I didn't have to call any of my men's parents and tell them that they had lost them forever.
How often were youcommanding a ship, and refused to carry out an ordered movement?
If the Navy can't find good skippers by playing soft and nice, stop being soft and nice. People's lives and our country is at stake. If females and transfats or whatever are put in positions of responsibility hold everyone to the same standards. Do your job or pay the price. Zero tolerance.