Yes. You should hate to say that. You should ALWAYS hate to say things that are false. You should hate to say falsehoods so much that you don't say them.
Unfortunately, you don't "hate to say it" enough.
I hate to say it because I know the ugly truth upsets people, but the fact is, men’s carnal desires are the fuel this engine runs on. It’s not like a drug that creates a need that wasn’t there before. This desire is embedded in the male psyche. Otherwise it wouldn’t be so pervasive.