It's impossible that you have read the scriptures completely and chronologically with anything resembling an open mind.
Perhaps you are a rape survivor and need a support group. Alternately, perhaps you have been painfully rejected by the opposite sex, or have self-sabotaging habits regarding the opposite sex, and need individual therapy.
Contempt for "duh patriarchy" is not a solution for the deep-seated fears underlying your cynicism. May the Lord help you to find paths to healing.
I assure you, no one has ever dared to attack me. The scriptures say exactly what they say: women have been sexual chattel for centuries and centuries, because that is how men like it. It’s why we are on this thread. It’s just the simple truth.