Dissolving the EU is not suicide on the parts of its member states. It’s the leaders who want to keep this intact, not the people.
And notice their reactions to people like Pence and Trump. They portray them as Emmanuel Goldstein was portrayed in 1984.
It is a near religious question of values.
A lion has his own perspective and so does hare. A snake has rather different perspective comparing to both lion and hare and the fish of its own.
You can’t make fish share worldview with hare. They don’t even live in the same environment.
To believe it is possible it one of the main blunders of US foreign policy.
At max you can make hare play as if it is a fish when it would realize that you are paying for it. It may even try on a scuba set if the pay is good enough.
It would stop immediately after you stop paying.