Maybe. But it depends a lot on the way that person was raised and on their belief system. What state was this in? I’m willing to be the demographics were slightly different than NY. There are always exceptions as you show.
Ohio. Previously we had been members of a Presbyterian church when the same daughter had an earlier miscarriage. Nobody there cared, and couldn’t understand why I was devastated. It would have been my first grandchild. We left that church.
There was a mere 15 miles difference between churches.