They want "bad boys" rather than nice guys. Nice guys are boring, bad boys are exciting.
My advice to young men: BE a man. Be somebody who is not to be messed with. The biological role of the male is to be the protector, and to defend his territory. Being a "nice" doormat will only earn you contempt. (This does not mean I encourage criminal abuse).
Great advice.
I just started watching George Bruno on youtube. I ran across his video about the carnivore diet, then found he has a lot more about life, masculinity, etc.