Lumberton NC is not regarded by anyone as part of Charlotte. Its the furthest thing from snowflakery to insist on geographic accuracy rather than excusing and accepting ignorance. Ignorance is bad, mmkay? Correctable, so better than stupid. But, still bad.
If someone wants to compare Denver negatively to another city I’m not such a snowflake I’m going to get bent out of shape.
You may not be a snowflake, but your posts here make you look like one.