Posted on 12/04/2018 7:16:36 AM PST by SeekAndFind
On Wall Street, many men have adopted Vice President Mike Pence's sage advice: avoid having dinner alone with any woman not your wife. There are other changes in behavior with female co-workers as well: don't sit next to them on flights, book hotel rooms on separate floors, and avoid one-on-one meetings.
And never close your office door when meeting with a female.
It's not just Wall Street, of course. The changes are affecting businesses nationwide in every industry.
Across Wall Street, men are adopting controversial strategies for the #MeToo era and, in the process, making life even harder for women.
Call it the Pence Effect, after U.S. Vice President Mike Pence, who has said he avoids dining alone with any woman other than his wife. In finance, the overarching impact can be, in essence, gender segregation.
Interviews with more than 30 senior executives suggest many are spooked by #MeToo and struggling to cope. Its creating a sense of walking on eggshells, said David Bahnsen, a former managing director at Morgan Stanley whos now an independent adviser overseeing more than $1.5 billion.
"Walking on eggshells" should be the phrase of the decade. On college campuses, white males are forced to be extremely -- even pathologically -- sensitive about what they say about race, gender, sex, gays, and any other subject the anti-free speech crowd sees fit to target them for. You can't write or talk about race anywhere in America unless you first accept your white privilege, and then proceed to embrace the assumptions of race of activists as a starting point. Not doing so automatically brands you as a "racist."
There are consequences to "walking on eggshells," the most prominent being a stifling conformity of thought, a deadening of intellectual curiosity, and fear.
The #MeToo movement, now a year old, is having a dramatic effect on women in the workplace. They may have drastically reduced sexual harassment -- a good thing in and of itself -- but at what cost?
Now, more than a year into the #MeToo movement -- with its devastating revelations of harassment and abuse in Hollywood, Silicon Valley and beyond -- Wall Street risks becoming more of a boys club, rather than less of one.
Women are grasping for ideas on how to deal with it, because it is affecting our careers, said Karen Elinski, president of the Financial Womens Association and a senior vice president at Wells Fargo & Co. Its a real loss.
The practical, down-to-earth, real-world effect of #MeToo has been tragically ironic:
The changes can be subtle but insidious, with a woman, say, excluded from casual after-work drinks, leaving male colleagues to bond, or having what should be a private meeting with a boss with the door left wide open.
In this charged environment, the question is how the response to #MeToo might actually end up hurting womens progress. Given the male dominance in Wall Streets top jobs, one of the most pressing consequences for women is the loss of male mentors who can help them climb the ladder.
There arent enough women in senior positions to bring along the next generation all by themselves, said Lisa Kaufman, chief executive officer of LaSalle Securities. Advancement typically requires that someone at a senior level knows your work, gives you opportunities and is willing to champion you within the firm. Its hard for a relationship like that to develop if the senior person is unwilling to spend one-on-one time with a more junior person.
Men have to step up, she said, and not let fear be a barrier.So is this a good strategy for men? Give women the cold shoulder and run away if they smile at you? An employment attorney on Wall Street says, If men avoid working or traveling with women alone, or stop mentoring women for fear of being accused of sexual harassment, those men are going to back out of a sexual harassment complaint and right into a sex discrimination complaint.
Those with the naive belief that treating women with respect and dignity in the workplace will be an ironclad shield against harassment or sexual assault claims are dreaming. While you should treat all women in and out of the workplace respectfully, #MeToo is not about that, or about protecting women. The movement is about the raw exercise of the power to shame, to destroy lives and careers, and to change the fundamental dynamic in male-female interpersonal relations in and out of the workplace.
In some ways, this is a good and necessary thing. But the potential for misunderstandings and false claims of harassment or assault where companies have a hair-trigger to pull against male workers makes the #MeToo movement problematic, at best, for women in the workplace.
It all assigned favored status minority groups...power tripping..trying to get you to lose your job or deprive others from advancing.
Lib lawyers and judges back up this nonsense up
..And companies even if they know its nonsense have to pretend to take it seriously.
They don’t need a law suit.
In reality people who abuse the system are smarmy petty cowards and or pathetic.
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Do NOT hire women!! They are TROUBLE!! So are some Special Groups!
That rule is not his own, but rather His: 1 Thessalonians 5:22
Better and easier to work for a small company with no females.
This is my wife and mother-in-law take as well. My MIL who was and is a strikingly beautiful woman was thrust into positions in state level government where she had to deal with handsey bosses and she set them straight without going the sexual harassment route, except for one case. One supervisor was drunk on power and thought that basic rules didn’t apply to him and she eventually had to file a formal complaint after trying the usual methods of dealing with improper behavior. It ended the behavior, she sought no punishment, just behave like a gentleman and she encountered bad behavior again from others but handled it without the formal complaint. She always dresses appropriately and never let her female employees dress suggestively.
My wife followed her example in the workplace and same as her Mom encountered some harassment, comments about their anatomy and dress even thought it was conservative and she did as her Mom and handled it without the formal complaint route. Both hate the way these idiotic feminist have behaved and complain that many talented women are going to not be given a chance simply because men and these companies just will not want to take the chance of something simple being said or done and some snowflake woman blow the place up with stupidity.
Here is a video that we all howled over when we discovered it! Enjoy!
I always let my natural sweetness shine through! /s
LOL! Enjoyed the video.
A good laugh. Thank you.
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