Refreshing that people can be this candid, given the ultra PC culture we have.
Only issue is that I wouldn’t say ‘men don’t like competition’, as many men are highly competitive. Competition keeps the ‘blood flowing’; keeps you sharp. Forces you to be your best (if you want to win).
What men don’t like is constantly walking on eggshells worrying: “do I treat her like a lady, or treat her like one of the boys?” Either way a guy can be setting himself up for a visit from the PC police at best, or a false #metoo allegation somewhere down the line at worst.
That’s true, the days of treating women the same as men are now gone. They’re treated as sensitive children instead.
Competition out in the world at large, in business, in sports, that's one thing. Constantly banging heads with a competitor in your own household is another. That is called marital strife. Somebody has to be the head of the household. Men have started saying no to feminist harridans being head of their household. Men want a partner in marriage, not a competitor.