Men blaming feminism and not taking responsibility for their part in it by capitulating and going along with it all, only reinforces the stereotype of men by feminism as being weak and not worthy of respect.
Men playing the victim card also does the same thing.
*It’s all the fault of feminism*, is whining and blame shifting.
No, it’s not all *feminism’s* fault.
Men didn’t need to own the victimhood.
“Men blaming feminism and not taking responsibility for their part in it”
What part did men take part in?
Feminism is what gave us the #MeToo movement. en are being falsely accused all over the place and having their lives ruined, and some are doing hard time.
Feminist-inspired quotas in colleges and workplaces are pushing qualified men out of their fields.
Now tell me how your “just be a more of a manly men” is supposed to deal with that. Or do you think those two examples are just “whining” too?
You’re the one calling it victimhood. We call it a guy enjoying life, traveling, climbing, getting a car they enjoy, and enjoying the pleasures of female company here and there. I suppose you could call that a a type of victim... I suppose.
I disagree. I used to agree with that view, but when you are attacked for over 40 years just for who you are it takes a toll. I was one of those who stood with those who said men shouldn’t play the victim card. The problem is everybody else did, was supported by the emerging cultural which continued their anti male assault. So as others benefited from the victim game men were pushed further to the fringe until now it is acceptable to call for the total ostracization of white males on national TV with no blowback. This doesn’t end well. I would recommend you read the ‘War on Boys’, it was written the late 90’s as I recall, but was very prescient.