Adultery isn’t all about sex, it’s mostly about lying and broken trust, trust that can never be rebuilt.
Women often quit feeling it and men often seek it out elsewhere
Affection and someone to tell them they’re great sorta
When I was young I thought it was for younger more supple women....or just something different but that’s sort of a canard
Women too can cheat if they feel unloved or undesired and not just in search of orgasm or affirmation they are still desired by someone
I’m lucky actually but in my peer group most men I know ....50s-70
The wives don’t want sex much if at all
About half the men cheat due to this....and yes most of their partners are younger
Someone very close to me...her mom cut her dad off at aged 43.....what’s a man to do....honestly
I have a close friend a former colonel in a serious military branch some say the best......an alpha obviously.....he’s 72....good shape after his stents...lol
His wife quit sex when they were fifties.....he didn’t want that and loves her and won’t leave her nor disrespect her publicly
He has a lover
They are discreet....she’s married and both her and her husband are doctors
Her husband may be a closete homosexual I’m not sure ....she’s 50 and beautiful
They rendezvous weekly and sneak trips together when they can...she has someone who gives her what she needs and vice versa
Yes it’s sin and yes it’s imperfect but I sure understand it
Baring illness if you ignore your mate it’s on you
Cutting someone off from intimacy is betrayal too....of the worst sort
I hate to say it but this hedonistic feminist shout about women being as sexual as men in middle and late middle age
Is bull.
For the most part.
I’ve never cheated on a woman I loved....and I didn’t do it for them so much as being true to myself
if my wife refused intimacy I’d cheat ..yes...and knowing her she would too..lol...if I neglected her...and that’s a competition she’d win obviously