Can’t do either very easily.
I go with the “Grumpy engineer” method. I don’t care where you pee or where your people are from, but by God you will do the job or I will use your femur as a hair pin.
Been doing that for decades. The one HR complaint I had was when I told a new young lady engineer “Bring extra socks and underwear”. The HR manager (a women) told her “If Red says you need them, you need it! I have seen him walk out covered with foulness so ripe the buzzards ran away!”
Said engineer later apologized, and now trains all of her pet engineers the same way. Makes me proud that I turned a few budding SJW into Grumpy Engineers.
However I have a policy of never being with a women behind closed doors alone. Never have private conversation with one at work that is not in full view of at least two other people.
Good points, each helping make my points, only better.