I suspect that the women, Dem and Rep, are just stupid enough to buy identity politics.....yes some R women are squishy and really Left leaning these days. They are the weak ones who can be manipulated.
GOP leaning women can listen to reason as opposed to lifelong brainwashed Ocasio types whose minds closed up tightly a long time ago.
Try a brief discussion (be ready to duck first) with a Dem relative. Things are bad today.