The vast majority of people are sexual, requiring or suggesting an outlet. Otherwise, it is a debilitating distraction. Scripture says so. “Marry rather than burn...”
I think Lopez is just recognizing this human condition. All chastities aren’t equal. A “gay” chastity is not the same as a “straight” chastity.
Neither is married chastity the same as chastity for single people. However, it’s a significant difference in perspective, and I think his is erroneous.