My wife can be deadly and beautiful at the same time. My wife really hit me hard when she caught me (when I was about 55) admiring a woman walking down the street. She said, she could be your granddaughter (18+18+18=54). Direct hit. That was a very low blow to my ego.
When they say stuff like “that could be your daughter”, or “that could be your granddaughter”, you can shut them down by saying, “yeahhhhhh... but she’s not”.
:)
Chances are she was 15 and just looked 18.