Sigh. Feel just the way you do. One of those topics wife and I can rarely talk about without anger. She knows some gay people as friends, so that might be part of it.
I understand. I understand your untenable position on this, because it’s your wife. I don’t know if you feel that you can say anymore at this point, but one point of debate could be that, just because she might know and even love, for instance, a family member who had committed serial, unrepentant adultery, would she feel that she had to defend adultery itself in that case?
(I know there’s a weakness in this argument, I haven’t yet taken the time to find it).