But what is the question you have to ask? How does it need to be worded?
“How does it need to be worded?”
“The sanity clause” from the Marx Brothers’ Night at the Opera,
https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=marx+brothers+contract+scene&view=detail&mid=87CE2B868531FB0EC97987CE2B868531FB0EC979&FORM=VIRE
Maybe all a dude has to do, is ask her if she knows shes a MILF?