the manners of politeness (which are superficial) might be less important than the consideration and love, even if it entails a cuss word or two.
Just a question... do you consider the F word just a cuss word? I don’t. When I grew up, that word meant something else... and it’s offensive to hear it used as common as it is today... lot of things today are hard... I’m no one to follow or give in.. I never was.. be a leader and do what is right.
I have a sweet 6 yr old grandson who hears that word and had to be told that was not to be used by him... this society makes kids minds go into things we did not have to go into... and it’s hard to see a little one be exposed to the dirt that is out there. Believe it or not, it wasn’t always like it is now.