she speaks English Spanish and passable Russian. She was just “aggrieved” that b/c she looks Hispanic someone assumed she spoke Spanish.
I told her if she/I went to Russia, they’d assume I was the one that spoke Russian b/c of my looks. How can you be mad at this?
Righteous indignation is occasionally necessary. But “aggrieved” is a 100% free choice. Don’t be a whiner in life. The other person has the right to make a small mistake about language.