How long had he lived off his mother if so, or was it vice versa? I ask as my wife’s mom is only 84 and the son 61. He has lived and bummed off momma since 1975 or so. Yes, she is SCARED TO HELL OF HIM. The punk served 3 years in the Corps as a Viet ERA type. He wrecked his Harley coming home. He does zip for the mom. My wife refuses to tell the state about Elder Abuse.
I can’t comprehend mooching off someone like that, especially immediate family.
At times, I’ve been broke, no real place to live, and borderline suicidal but I found a way to pick up and keep going.