I’d just assume drop dead living on my own as opposed to rotting away in assisted living.
Awful story —- I’m so fortunate my 57 y/o brother lives with my 91 year old Mom. She broke her hip In April and needs more help with everything and he’s like a rock always helping her and watching over diligently. My mom has a heart of gold and apparently my brother inherited it. When she was in the rehab center for a few weeks she hated it and my brother was there visiting with her every single day. What a blessing from God.