This reminds me of a scene in the show American Crime The Assasination of Gianni Versace. Andrew Cunanan wrapped up some old gay guys head in duct tape and let him start breathing heavy before punching holes in the nose and mouth area. I mean he still killed the old queen, but it was such a creepy scene.
Getting poked in the ass is not as edgy as it once was. Now they have to get their partners near death to get a thrill.